Week 2 Blog 4 - Free Write

There are three things that I will not stand fo rin a man that I want to be with.

The first is smoking. I will never dat e smoker. I realize that it is addicting and hard to quit and there are those people that only smoke "socially", but I will not stand for it in a guy I want to be with. If you want to do it that if fine I will not yell at you for smoking, but it is just not the person I want to be it hits to close to home. I have been hurt by a smoker before and I will not be hurt by someone else who gets hurt because they choose to smoke.

Second it not being a animal lover. I realize that some people do not like animals, and that is okay everyone is not the same, but I am a HUGE animal lover. I have 2 cats, 2 dogs, and 2 horses. I will always have animals for the rest of my life. So I have to be with a guy that shares my love for animals.

Third and last is that I have to be able to trust you. I realize this is a broad word but that is why I choose it. I think the fondation of a good realationship is all about trust. Trust that you are not cheating on my, trust that you really love me, trust that you are not going to hurt me, trust that you are not lying to me, trust that you will always be loyal. People do not realize how many different quality trust is a part of, almost every single good quality. Like being faithful, you are trusting your partner that they are going to stay faithful.

All in all these are the 3 main qualities I look for in a guy. If he does not have all of them that is okay! Everyone is different and it just means that it is just not the guy for me.

Kim